Thursday, April 29, 2010

The Swingset Saga

So Boston will be 5 in just 14 days. With Baby Graham on the way we decided an investment in a swing set was overdue. Now, if you know me I like to shop, and not just shop, I go for the kill. So within our budget I began to look for a swing set. Oh my goodness!!! What a surprise have you checked out what these things go for?! It's a swing set not a guest house, I am all about investing in my children but come on! So, after many disappointing searches on the i-net I found one that not only was in our price range but it had everything that we wanted with-in reason. Here is what is should look like.


Well days 1 and 2 have already passed and it has been fun! (can you hear the sarcasm)

Day 1: I did at least get Stephen to verify that all of the parts were there, always a good thing. The wood is already stained and the instructions suggest that you seal the wood for a longer life expectancy. Makes sense. So I pulled out all of the wood and organized it, keep in mind there are NO labels only measurements for you to verify that they are the correct piece. That took an hour minimum. Then Stephen sprayed all the wood with sealer and we let it set over night. Day 1 was not looking too shabby.

Day 2: So we come home from work with determination that we are going to get far tonight. We go into the back yard and........ All the wood, all the hard work, has been tossed around like a tornado has ransacked our back yard. I didn't realize how strong the wind had been and still really didn't believe that that's what caused the mess. But as I was picking up the pieces and leaning them against the house, it didn't take long for the wind to pick back up and knock those all down, AGAIN. So we cleared off the patio and laid the wood all out there, that just sucked up 30-45 more min of our time. Then we started on the beam that supports the swings, which ended up being put together twice after realizing we used the wrong parts. We managed to get that beam put together, the top of the monkey bars, the ladder, slide, and the swings all assembled.

I'm not sure what Day 3 will bring. Hopefully more accomplished than fighting. There IS something worse than a wife watching over your husbands every move and asking "Are you sure?" to everything that he does. It's called a 6 month hormonal pregnant one! :) I am looking into family counseling once this is said and done.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Where has time gone?

So I had to register Boston for Kindergarten this last week. As I write this I have the feeling in my stomach that I am fixing to cry. Maybe it's the pregnancy hormones, maybe not, but I can't believe this day has come. They did an assessment test and he did great. Confirmation of mine and Stephen's choice not to pursue Pre-K, the world tries to grow up kids way to quickly these days and I guess I felt there was no need to put that much pressure on him and us as parents. He is so anxious and has asked every day since when does he get his locker. We have to classify time into significant events, "Your birthday is after your last soccer game, the baby will be here before you start school, you start school after the baby is here." Oh to be a kid again and have no worries just major milestones to look forward to.

I can't believe he will be 5 next month. 5 years of watching the world through a child's eyes is truly humbling. He has grown into such a sweet and loving little man. It seems like yesterday we brought him home and now before we know it we will be bringing Baby Cox #2 through the same doors.

I pray this summer we can continue to make memories. I hope being pregnant doesn't hold me back too much to enjoy his last times before he officially enters his school years. I pray that God prepares us for the new adventures of a family of four.